A BLAST FROM THE PAST!

I don’t usually think of my ex-husband, as I effectively wiped him off my list years ago, but a CAN OF NASTY  has been opened, by my neighbor, Tree Lady, when she barked out to me …

“YOUR EX-HUSBAND’S TRYING TO GET IN TOUCH WITH YOU”!

I quickly replied …

“WHO CARES”!

That was the last thing she screamed out, the day she and her ex-husband verbally assaulted my son and me, with their slanderous lies; their purpose … MOBBING US ( see…Psychological Torture …THE MOB DOES NOT RULE), so that we would MOVE ! Those horrible lies screamed at us were so nuclear that it lit a burning fire in me and made me sooooooo furious. The comment that this woman made about my ex-husband was exceptionally EVIL, and I’ve decided to tell everyone about just how EVIL she is.

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Let me start with a few facts… My children and I moved from the deep south to California because we were forced to leave our home, as my ex-husband …

threatened to kill us!

My ex-husband is an … “IF I CAN’T HAVE YOU … NOBODY WILL”… type of  …

MURDER, THREATENING GUY…

who put guns to my head, harassed our children, stalked me, terrorizing us all.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE was not a pretty thing. This all took place in the 80’s and they didn’t have all the Lifetime Movies about murdering spouses back then, in fact, they didn’t even have a Stalking Law in our state, when my ex was hiding in the bushes and following me around, acting crazy.

A  little remembrance … my kids were at work with me one day and my daughter said , “hey, mom, dad’s across the street in the bushes” … simultaneously the phone rings and a neighbor across the street called and said …” there’s a man in the bushes with binoculars looking at your place”!  Well, the kids went tearing out the door, chasing their dad up the street.

What a SCENE !

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!

There’s my warped sense of humor at work!

During the earlier part of  his … REIGN OF TERROR, I didn’t consider his threats and crazy behavior, seriously, and I believed he was being laughably … STUPID!

I WAS VERY NAIVE!

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!

He escalated his crap until it got really… out of hand; police were called, very often, 6 times in 1 month, death threats were made, until an officer loaded a shotgun and told me to kill him the next time he broke into my house, or I would end up dead! Back in the south, I carried a handgun and I let my ex-husband know that I would shoot him, which was suggested  by the police, and I was told…

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” Better, tried by 12 … than, carried by 6 “

(Better to be alive, and in court to be judged by a jury of 12,  than dead, and carried to your grave by 6 pallbearers)

That was really a terrible mindset to be in … knowing that seriously, you might have to kill your ex-husband or …

BE KILLED!

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This was NO JOKE!

Things had become so crazy, the police were expecting someone to DIE, and I do believe, before it was over, they were betting it would be him!

During those days I became VERY FIERCE and had to think like a warrior .

His attempt at controlling us led to over 3,000 huge pieces of correspondence to me and our children. He sunk himself with those letters, because when I presented the courts and doctors with all his insane words, they deemed him…” PARANOID SCHIZOPHRENIC WITH PSYCHOSIS “.  I still have many of those CRAZY letters.

As a result of all his DOINGS, the judge in Family Court ordered him be seen by a psychiatrist, and …

ALL HIS VISITATION …

with his children was taken away.  The Judge ordered that he not see his children until they reached their 21st birthdays, but added that he didn’t think it would be advisable, even after they became adults.

All the stuff he did got CRAZIER AND CRAZIER.

His harsh treatment by the court, was his very own fault, because of his acting so insane. My attorney, told me, at that time, he was the only man, ordered to pay child support in our state, and not allowed any visitation, and that included inmates at the state prison, who had murdered their wives; their children were still required to have visitation with the FATHER WHO MURDERED THEIR MOTHER!

After getting on with my life, trying to be a good mother, marrying my second husband, and running my business, … My ex-husband continued to make connections with me, via the Court system, suing me a total of 8 times within 5 years. Finally, a judge, in the last lawsuit, bothered to read our huge court files generated by all his insane lawsuits. I might add that he lost every suit he filed against me (different Judges).  The last Judge announced to my ex- husband’s attorney …“MR. __________, I HAVE TAKEN THE TIME TO READ THIS ENTIRE CASE HISTORY … AND … I DO NOT LIKE YOUR CLIENT! I can see what he’s trying to do, and that he’s trying to find out the address of the Defendant.” I was living in CA, then.

The judge told my ex-husband that she was ordering him to leave me alone, and  if he ever brought another lawsuit against me … he would be held in contempt… something about coming to court… WITH UNCLEAN HANDS, can’t remember, but, whatever, I haven’t heard from him since.

The reason I divorced my husband, after 15 years of  marraige, I found out he was having an affair with our baby sitter starting when she was 14 years old, until  she was 19!  There’s a word that starts with “P” … that describes a 40 year old man who has an AFFAIR WITH A CHILD …  And it wasn’t just that 1 affair … he was…

A SECRET, SERIAL, SEX MACHINE_

GOLD – MEDAL WINNING …

OLYMPIC _CHEATER

After we moved to CA, my daughter told me things about her father that I cannot repeat, but I’ll just say that ,what she told me, I’ll never get over!

We’ve had to deal with lots of NASTY, CRAZY STUFF, because of this EVIL EX, but I’m still here,  and NOW, I’m telling this sordid story, as it’s time for the truth.

THANK YOU, MS. WITCH, I  know that my SOCIOPATHIC EX, will surely want to thank you for bringing all this up…

ROCKING HIS BOAT…

if he happens to know or find out about this blog. Maybe she should always be cautious, since he  could lapse into psychosis and blame her for stirring me up! And, if he knows how to find me … well she lives right across the street!

My ex was civic minded, a pillar of the business community … lots of money and usually, very effectively, hides his KOO KOO, from the public.

A VERY CRAZY, DEVIOUS, DANGEROUS MAN!

I was called in by a Youth Court Judge for a meeting, and was worried that I, or one of my children was in trouble, even though, none of us had ever been in trouble before, but when I got there… the Judge explained  that I needed to shut down my business,  pack-up my kids, leave my family and friends, and MOVE, because he had been following my case, and was convinced that I would be murdered, and he told me, my children were in danger. He strongly advised me to move far away, and not let our whereabouts be known, because he was concerned for our safety.

Seems my ex-husband had a teenage, criminal and mental health record … had tried to MURDER his girlfriend’s father when he was 16, and various other INSANE STUFF, spent some time in a YOUTH LOCK UP FACILITY, and his mental records showed…

REAL PROBLEMS!

That Judge took his valuable time to call me in and give me advice to try and save my family’s lives. He explained to me that my ex was a SOCIOPATHIC PERSONALITY, and made sure that I understood what he was capable of doing.

You might be thinking to yourself that this is some made-up drama, or a figment of my imagination, but it was…

A REAL NIGHTMARE!

I have HIS CRAZY LETTERS to prove my case. Those tales of CRAZY that were presented to the Family Courts concerning my family, got me thoroughly evaluated by a team of Psychiatrists (6 of them), and unanimously found me capable to have full custody of my children.  This team of doctors read CRAZY letters my ex-husband wrote, and they advised that he won’t stop until he…

FINALIZES THE LOSS OF HIS FAMILY… HIS WAY!

They, also told me, that he is a SOCIOPATH!

After those 6 psychiatrists convinced me that all of our lives were in danger, I had to move my family. First the Judge, now all these doctors, and they said that things had to change quickly, or…

PEOPLE WOULD DIE.

HEAVENS !!!!!

Sure hope I’m not scaring anyone, but it was a terror show!

The hardest decision in my life was to RUN AWAY from my family, friends and home. I left all that negative crap in the dust and relocated to southern CA, leaving no forwarding address. My children and I were never sorry that we made the decision to escape our tormentor.

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My dream was to have a home with an ocean view, and to be creative and happy.

I had accomplished all that, until my neighbor decided to hurt me, planting her trees to block my ocean view, then screaming at us, bringing my awful past, that I’d successfully left behind … into my present, here and now!

Both my daughter and I had told this neighbor woman why we moved to CA, and about my ex-husband and his desire to kill us, well, wasn’t that…

JUST TOO STUPID?  OH, YES … IT WAS!

Who would ever think that a nice neighbor would use something like that against us … but she sure did. I learned a valuable life lesson!

The torment and terror that my family endured for years, by A CRAZY MAN, and now my neighbor is using that to harm me all over again, to try and make me MOVE, again!

This woman is SSSOOOOOO EVIL … AN ABSOLUTE WITCH! The very worst lies she yelled at us were about my son, and what she said about my daughter and me was so disgusting.

This woman should think about this stuff she said, and ask herself … how she would like someone to tell that CRAP … ALL LIES… about her and her kids.  It almost sounded like this woman had been talking to my ex-husband!

If I find this to be true … this woman is in for some …

DOUBLE DOOM VOODOO

Yaki, Mystic Cat of Wonderland, my Voodoo Queen Cat, is very busy, sharpening her claws AND VOODOO SKILLS.

Before I left my home in the south, all sorts of untrue rumors had been spread around about me and my children by my ex-husband, their father. After my daughter told me her story, I realize that my EX was desperately spreading his rumors to counteract anything my daughter might have told.  That all makes sense to me now. I see clearly why he turned into such a nut job … he was scared his secret was out, and trying to shift his guilt by putting out rumors about us. Very clever guy!

My ex remarried and his new wife got involved with telling trash about us. One particular lie this neighbor yelled at me, was one of those INSANE lies, that new wife had spread … so … am I suspicious that MY EVIL NEIGHBOR has made a connection with MY EVIL EX AND COMPANY?  Yes I am!  Am I certain, NO… I’m not … but there are ways to find out that kind of truth … whether people have been talking  …

PHONE RECORDS.

I’ve had to reconcile with the fact that when someone wants to make up lies and spread them around, about the only thing you can do is … go as public as you can with the truth and hope that anyone who heard all the lies will get to hear your side of the story.

Just look how many are reading this and I have to wonder just how many people who know me and have heard these CRAZY RUMORS  … are going to rethink what they’ve heard, and if they think those lies are true… well guess what … THEY’RE NOT … and

I DON’T CARE … What anyone thinks  !

This blog is now serving a multifunctional purpose and the fact that this crazy story of “neighbors gone bad” is now connected to my “PSYCHO EX- HUSBAND” is really…

unbelievable!

You know … I’ve said it several times before,  about  the nature of people …

My ex-husband … is, who he is…

he’s done … what he’s done …

he’s very capable of doing … what he does …

IT’S ALL VERY PREDICTABLE!

Because of what my family and I’ve endured and survived … I have a very short fuse for CRAP … I put up with wwwwaaaaaaayyyyyyyy too much stuff in my life and decided that…

I’VE HAD IT WITH BULLYING … HAD IT, WITH CONTROL … and

NO ONE WOULD EVER THREATEN ME, AGAIN!

There are several possibilities here … either …

• the WITCH NEIGHBOR got in touch with my ex-husband
• my CRAZY, ex-husband contacted the WITCH
• the WITCH is lying, telling that made-up crap, to worry me

Just a glimpse into what kind of a busybody this neighbor woman is … when she and my son used to talk, filled him in on how much all the other neighbors owed on their mortgages, taking such pride in her investigative prowess. Seems she can just find out all sorts of stuff on the internet …

NICE, FRESH GOSSIP …

SSSSSSSSSSOOOOOO TASTY!

• It’s not too much of a … L E A P … to imagine this woman would have called my ex-husband, trying to stir up trouble for us, digging up dirt.
• Nor, is it out of the REALM OF POSSIBILITIES, that  my EX …  A BONA FIDE, CRAZY MAN … would, still, be insane enough to be trying to cause me harm.
• It is highly probable that this woman just thought she could give me a final, swift, blow by playing on what she thought were my greatest fears, causing me to pack up and run away, again, using what she knew, trying to frighten me, to accomplish making us move. I am hoping this is the case, and she’s made all of it up, but… what if?

Anyway … whichever one of the possibilites is true, I must admit, has caused me to THINK about what this woman has done and said, and to realize that she is so EVIL that she could threaten me like that, knowing about our serious problem. That certainly falls under the …

LABEL

The reason I have pitched the BIGGEST HISSY FIT of my life has been because of these special ingredients, whipped up by this WITCH with just that little smidgen of my ex-husband … added, like…

a cherry on top …

let’s see…

NO… MAKE THAT A CHERRY BOMB ON TOP…

but wait …

SUPERSIZE

that to…

A NUCLEAR BOMB!

My drastic reaction to what has taken place over here in Wonderland could be compared to a nuclear explosion … the mushroom cloud keeps on spreading and we’ll have to wait and see how far  the fallout will spread, and this …

WILL NOT DISSAPATE

for years to come.

This whole story is so complicated with all the many pieces, and I’ve wanted to write my story and publish it, because it’s time for the truth, as I’ve been pushed into opening my…

BIG YAPPING JAWS.

What was my severe anger, in the beginning, I’ve successfully  turned into my laugh therapy. How else would someone handle this situation? MOVE, just as my nice, thoughtful, neighbor ordered me to do?

Hey ! She didn’t know me very well, did she?

Why does she think she can give out orders for…

MY LIFE ?

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Oh,  forgot,  she has crowned herself the…

♕ QUEEN …  of the Cul-De-Sac ♕

And … I’m going to be chased from my home, for the second time in my life, by this WITCHY, THREATENING, LYING NEIGHBOR, perhaps with my ex-husband involved, again?

NOT A CHANCE!

This woman and her henchmen picked on the WRONG PERSON, and, said stuff they had no business saying to me … pushed me right over the edge … creating a ME , all these neighbors wished they had not invoked, because I am …

A FLOWING FOUNTAIN OF NASTY TRUTH,

spewing forth …

A RIVER OF CRAP;

these neighbors are all going to be …

VERY SOGGY and VERY SORRY

they ever awakened this sleeping…

SWAMP GATOR.

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Maybe I should pay the cost and get the courthouse to send me the $150 worth of copies of all the massive paperwork from my court cases, so I can take it to the Oceanside Police Department and show them the REAL PROBLEMS that I moved to Oceanside, CA to escape.

I’ve minded my own business for all these years … I’m now, because of my neighbor, in a dangerous situation, again, if my ex is involved. If he really called her and knows where I live, could be…

A BIG PROBLEM!

And she lied to the police and said she didn’t say that to me.

I really thought that I was done with all this mess, but here we are again, revisiting the past I thought I’d escaped!

Now, perhaps I’m just beginning to feel the pulse of what’s made my blood pressure go up, and why, this violent angry reaction, my need to DRAW RIDICULOUS CARTOONS, and write this blog, has taken a hold of me !

At the least, I’ve had to reopen THAT VERY NASTY FILE, deep from within the recesses of my brain, bringing back some mighty awful memories, and this DUMB WITCH wanted to STEP HER BIG FOOT INTO…

MY BIG PILE OF CRAP …

WELCOME … YOU STUPID WITCH … GIT ON IN HERE … BRING AS MANY AS YOU’D LIKE INTO MY PERSONAL BUSINESS …

LET‘S P A R T E E !

YA’LL … COME ON …  LET’S GIT ON IN THERE … INTO HER PERSONAL PRIVATE LIFE…

LET‘S P A R T E E !

Surely the Oceanside Police Dept. won’t be able to say that my situation is so ridiculous, if they read and understand that what seems so ridiculous could result in very bad things in OCEANSIDE!

Wonder if something drastic were to happen, what would Oceanside Police Department say about all this? Wonder if they’d follow up with the charming, chatty, neighbor who’s possibly aiding my INSANE EX, and putting me in a very dangerous place.

I know all this sounds really insane … it is INSANE… but, IT IS ALL TRUE!

I have NOTHING to be ashamed of, except that I chose to marry a CRAZY PERSON … a very big mistake in life. (I was 17 when I fell in love and 19 when we married … was a very mature lady… back then… RIGHT!)

Keeping my mouth shut is no longer an option, thanks to my neighbor, so just let me KEEP ON CHIRPING about all this crap. I can just tell all kinds of truthful tidbits, and the research into the psychology of my situation will keep my flame lit for a very long time.

RIDICULOUS … CONNIVING …

EVIL  PEOPLE.

This tacky woman, screaming out at me about my ex-husband has caused angst, and… I DON’T DO ANGST, VERY WELL, as it stirs up …

MY FIGHT OR FLIGHT  RESPONSE.

MY FLIGHT part is no longer in working order …

I’m staying right over here in Wonderland,

and, nature has compensated me with…

Quadruple FIGHT!

And, I don’t do MURDER THREATS very well … I’ve had enough of those pesky, MURDER THREATS, from my EX, to last me a lifetime.

My neighbor, BIG JACK ASS, sure thought he was sly, leaning in close, saying his informative warning to me, then lying when the police asked him about it. Thanks to my ability to capture the moment with this cartoon, everyone can relive my feelings. Oh, I did add the gun for effect, but those were his exact words, and the image is accurate, showing exactly how he made me feel.

Think again, Big Jack Ass, you didn’t get away with your threat, did you?

I do believe YOUR THREAT is flying all over the UNIVERSE … RIGHT NOW, as I’m typing, and will still be zooming around… as you’re reading … and will remain in perpetual motion …

GRAVEN IN THE GALAXY !

Perhaps all who have read this ranting, raving blog will begin to understand what’s up with all this ridiculous crap, and why I’m airing all this dirty laundry? It does appear that I’m just a …

LADY

And, would anyone out there be interested in what would make someone act so CRAZY?

Some people will only stand for so much CRAP before they take action!

Yes, at first glance, it looks like I am the LONE CRAZY PERSON, on my street, taking on these seven nice neighbors here in WONDERLAND, some of them, I’ve never even met. Just started up all this crap to create some much needed DRAMA in my life. Okay , so that would be their story … but, let’s get real … after reading all the DRAMA I’ve been involved in, NOT A CHANCE, did I want any more DRAMA in my life, but in the neighborly words of BIG JACK ASS …

“BRING IT ON”!

There could just be another side of the story that has been overlooked, and that is why this MASSIVE BLAB is in process …

BLA… BLA … BLA … BLA … BLA!

I’m an analytical nut, guilty of over-analyzing, beyond the normal range, but gosh… can’t change who I am, that’s what us artist’s do …

WE LIKE DETAILS!

My TRUTH WILL BE TOLD, I am going to make sure that this CRAZY, CRAPPY STORY will reach as many as possible.

I have so many options with FACE BOOK …TWITTER … RANTS AND RAVES … CRAIG’S LIST … MY SPACE …etc. that I’ve ,not yet, posted on. A friend told me if I want REAL EXPOSURE, I should get it out there.

WordPress is the only place this is seen, so far, and I have quite an audience … but will be very interesting to add other places, one at a time, and see what gets the most views. I do need the web traffic since I’m selling t-shirts and giclee paintings, now.

If the stuff that TREE LADY threatened me with, has come from whence I came, via her trying to dig up garbage, and she has found INSANE CRAP about me …well, she dug up that crap from the loony bin… and can be traced back to my CRAZY EX … I guarantee that! If she’s made all that up … well, THAT was about the DUMBEST thing she could’ve done.

Well, well …

• speaking of … FINDING … ALL SORTS OF STUFF ON THE INTERNET…
• and speaking of … DIRTY LAUNDRY …
• and speaking of … A BLAST FROM THE PAST …

Wonder if anyone over here in WONDERLAND recognizes the mystery photo, below?

YOU WILL NOT BELIEVE MY NEXT POST …

I AM STILL IN … SEVERE SHOCK …  AND AWE

over what has been … MAGICALLY … handed to me.  This will be … the …

COUP DE GRAS …

And, OH, YES, I do have …

THE WHOLE ENCHILADA

MORE TO COME

HOT CHIPS are falling!

STAY TUNED FOLKS …. VERY GRAPHIC , INFORMATIVE and SHOCKING STUFF… COMING UP VERY SOON.

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IT’S GETTING VERY HAIRY

on this Cul-de-sac!

Just… U d d e r l y … Ridiculous

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